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And Both are True: Mimicry and Authenticity in Educating for Faith

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Every teacher wants to make a difference in their students’ lives, and educating for faith involves relationship building. Jewish faith is founded on an individual’s relationship with God, the Land of Israel, Torah, and the Jewish People. Teachers who want to help students build their faith need to build relationships with their students which support, but do not supplant, the students’ relationships with the foundations of Jewish faith. Similar to the approach used to guide skill development in academic, behavioral, and social-emotional learning, where modeling, direct instruction, or coaching techniques may be effective, the teacher needs to step aside at the appropriate juncture to encourage independence. Emulation of role models can be a useful first stage, but mimicry that does not advance beyond imitation may impede authentic religious growth and development.

Education and Faith Relationships

When we speak of faith as relationship it is valuable to briefly look at other relationships to learn from them. In relationships between people, the more you know about a person and their life circumstances the more empathy and affinity you have for them. The same holds true of relationships of faith. For example, the more one traverses the land of Israel, the more one can appreciate its biodiversity, geography, cultural communities, history, terrain, beauty, and more. Knowledge deepens the relationship. Yes, students need teachers who truly listen to them and meet them where they are at, but educating for faith must also include content knowledge and skill development that strengthens faith relationships with God, Torah, the Land of Israel, and the People of Israel. Knowledge of text, halakha, Jewish thought, history, and tefilah nourishes faith—it is nutrient material that plies the mind and soul with energy and insight. I know how important it is that students feel understood, but when I hear anecdotally from teachers that they are tasked primarily with informal discussions with students rather than teaching content, I worry that their students are missing vital building blocks in the development of faith-based relationships. Feeling without substance does not build lasting relationships.

Community, Loneliness, and Faith

Educating for faith includes both community engagement and individual resilience. On the one hand we teach not to separate from the community, while on the other hand that every individual is responsible for their own choices and decisions. This duality may present unscripted dilemmas. Sometimes we have to go against the crowd, to say “no” when everyone else is doing something that just doesn’t feel right. Educating for faith must include opportunities for listening to one’s inner voice, one’s internal moral compass that no one else can see or feel. Educating for faith must address the ambiguity of loneliness in a world filled with others. I am reminded of the quote by Lorraine Hansberry, “The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is inevitably that which makes you lonely.” This, of course, requires preparing students with the inner strength to stand up for themselves when they diverge from the crowd and have the fortitude to bear that loneliness.

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Educating for faith might mean having teachers emphasize the wonder of uncertainty and ambiguity, the connection of loneliness to individuality, and the decoupling of questions from answers. As Rav Soloveitchik writes in “The Lonely Man of Faith,” the “loneliness of the man of faith is an integral part of his destiny from which he can never be completely liberated.” Students will need to grapple, encounter challenges they cannot finish quickly, revisit questions across their lifespan, practice self-reflection, and prize growth over time. We have to be okay with our own not knowing. Faith in God requires commitment within the context of ambiguity, loneliness, and uncertainty.

Mimicry and Authenticity

Genuine faith is internal, invisible, emotional, and powerful. Role models who provide visible, concrete, authentic representations of what faith-centered living looks and sounds like serve as extremely valuable and influential resources. Impressionable adolescents can benefit from having strong relationships with Jewish studies teachers and Rabbis they respect, learning to emulate or be inspired by these influential figures in their lives.

Mimicry, however, also presents its challenges, especially for teachers. Precisely because it feels really good when someone copies your choices or follows your advice, teachers can tend to unconsciously favor students who admire them. This favoritism is perceived by students who come to believe that teachers only like students who agree with them, which carries the additional burden of students who pretend to agree with the teacher. This is exceptionally problematic for the process of educating for faith as it reduces critical inquiry and productive disagreement. This superficial mimicry builds artificial as opposed to authentic faith, as it encourages fakery and subterfuge. And then there is the reality check. We are all human and make mistakes, errors of judgment, or fall short. Ultimately, these students, even the ones who adore their teachers, will eventually see their shortcomings and imperfections. When this happens, will they throw off the faith relationship when they discover that their revered model is flawed?

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Conclusion

Educating for faith must balance understanding how to support all students in their faith-journeys and knowing when to move aside and watch from the wings. Faith can be inspired by role models and emulated in practice, but ultimately faith is tested individually under trying circumstances. Faith cannot be co-constructed, shared, transferred, or commoditized.

Relationships in education are the foundation for learning. Educating for faith means building authentic and meaningful connections with children that support student learning and growth but also knowing when to yield the field. Educating for faith is dependent on building a body of Jewish knowledge which supports faith and skills to be able to discern between what is genuine and that which only appears to be genuine. If we want students to build authentic Jewish faith, they need to learn how to distinguish authenticity from superficiality or falsehood. This requires embracing Torah content, developing concepts and skills, and building critical, responsible thinking. In doing so, we affirm what it means to be an authentic proud Jew—one who is inspired by venerable role models but can also stand securely on their own two feet.

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Miriam Hirsch is an Associate Professor of Education and Chair of the Educator Preparation Program at Stern College for Women, Yeshiva University. Her research examines narrative experiences of teaching, learning, and schooling. She is co-editor of the new Journal of Jewish Early Childhood Education.

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From The Editor: Fall 2026

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In my role as board president, and as a parent of both graduates and current students, I frequently receive feedback from parents, staff, and administrators about the state of the school. Some of the most impassioned conversations revolve around the question of how schools can help students deepen their faith. Few, however, are able to articulate precisely what this means. For some, faith grounds and manifests itself in resilience. For others, it is a spiritual attachment expressed through greater religious observance, prayer, or ritual practice. Faced with this ambiguity, schools often attempt a little of everything. They expand informal programming, encourage visible religious behavior, and offer courses in Jewish philosophy. Yet these well-intentioned efforts are often premised on the assumption that faith is a discrete educational outcome.

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I never asked him, as he died when I was 14 and most of my questions came later. I wanted to believe in a rational world, yet met a world that didn’t make sense but allowed us to trust in ourselves and our own rationality. Where did God and religion fit in there? At moments in my young adulthood when faith seemed far, I would sometimes find glimmers of it in visual aesthetic experiences; the light of the Shabbat candles and the moments when the sun slips away.

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