It was 5 months into the school year and I was devastated. After 15 years of successful teaching in high school, I concurrently began working in a local elementary school and I was really struggling. What had worked well until now just wasn’t working there. Despite my best efforts, the students were often misbehaving. I was really disappointed in myself and in my classroom. I was scheduled to have a meeting with my principal, and I was certain that his feedback would be negative. What happened, though, completely shocked me and opened my eyes to a profoundly different style of leadership.








