Jewish Education Amidst Rising Antisemitism  volume 22:2 Winter 2024

How Gendered Programming Transformed a School

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Five years ago, a former Ida Crown Jewish Academy (ICJA) parent and board member approached the school with an idea to help increase student connection and engagement, as well as help with future enrollment. His recommendation was to focus on separate gender programming, specifically starting with the girls. He felt that this type of programming would create meaningful opportunities for involvement in leadership roles and activities, connection to other students and to the school, and pride in being an ICJA student. He also felt that this type of program would appeal to parents whose children had been enrolled in non-coed elementary schools, providing a more comfortable landing for them. What began as an experimental program has grown into a cornerstone of our culture, reshaping the student experience and strengthening the school community.

The Program and Its Goals

The separate gender programming, now known as Ida Crown Girls Club (ICGC) and Ida Crown Boys Club (ICBC), revolves around fostering engagement and leadership in students. At its core, the initiative includes a dedicated team of five faculty members to serve as mentors—Mechanchim and Mechanchot—who work closely with students to plan and execute events tailored to their interests and needs. In addition to helping plan events, these educators make sure to meet one-on-one with each member of the student body two to three times over the course of the school year.

Students from each grade can apply to join the programming boards. These boards are student-led, with faculty providing guidance and mentorship. The boards brainstorm, plan, and implement activities, which include mishmar twice a week, Rosh Hodesh lunch haburot, shabbatonim, and special holiday programming. The goal is twofold: to provide students with opportunities for spiritual, personal growth and to build a positive, spirited school environment.

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A Collaborative Effort

The program’s success hinges on the collaboration between students, faculty, parents, and the broader school community. Students take on leadership roles, bringing their creativity and energy to the table. Faculty members provide structure and ensure that activities are meaningful and well-organized. Parents support the program through encouragement and participation in related events. Extended members of the school community, such as alumni and local community leaders, often contribute by speaking at events and providing guidance to the students.

The board has heard from former staff, parents, and more. This collaborative approach ensures that the program remains dynamic and relevant, addressing the evolving needs of the student body.

Embedding the Program in School Culture

What began as a niche extracurricular club quickly became an integral part of our culture. The programming is no longer seen as an add-on but as a defining feature of the school’s identity. Students look forward to their free periods, not as unstructured downtime, but as opportunities to meet with Mechanchim and participate in meaningful discussions or activities.

Weekly mishmarim and lunchtime haburot are highly anticipated, offering students the chance to engage in Torah learning in a relaxed, peer-supported environment. Annual shabbatonim have become a highlight of the school year, fostering camaraderie and creating lasting memories. These events are not just about fun; they instill a sense of belonging and pride in the school, creating a ripple effect that strengthens the overall community.

How the Program Developed: A Step-by-Step Approach

The success of our separate gender programming didn’t happen overnight—it was a process of trial, feedback, and intentional growth. Schools looking to implement similar initiatives can learn from the three key steps that shaped this program:

  1. Starting with volunteer-led programming
    The program began as an alumni-driven initiative. Former students, eager to stay connected and give back, created fun and engaging activities for the girls. These events provided a structured space for students to bond and build school spirit, but it quickly became clear that the demand for programming was greater than what volunteers could sustain.
  2. Transitioning to paid faculty leadership
    Recognizing the impact and need for consistency, the school took the next step—hiring female Mechanchot to facilitate and expand the program both in-school and after school. This shift ensured that students had reliable faculty leadership, deeper mentorship, and a more structured approach to programming. The faculty-led model provided a stronger framework, making programming a dependable and integral part of the student experience.
  3. Expanding to boys’ programming
    Initially, there was an assumption that boys didn’t need additional gender-specific programming, as they already had access to sports and other extracurriculars. However, as the girls’ program grew, boys began asking for their own version. Three years in, it was clear that they, too, wanted structured, meaningful activities outside the classroom. With student demand and demonstrated success, the program expanded, with the existing male Mechanchim as the leaders, and established programming for all students.

This three-phase approach allowed the program to grow organically while ensuring that each step was backed by student interest and institutional support. Schools looking to create similar initiatives can start small, assess needs, and gradually build a structured program that meets the evolving needs of their students.

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The Lasting Impact

Five years into the program, its impact is undeniable. Students speak warmly about the relationships they have built with their peers and Mechanchim, describing a sense of connection and support that was previously missing. Surveys and interviews reveal that students feel more engaged and take greater pride in their school. To ensure programming remains effective, the school consistently collects data through surveys and interviews. This process provides valuable feedback, allowing the program to adapt and grow in response to student needs and preferences. Parents, too, have noticed the change, commenting on their children’s enthusiasm for school events and their increased sense of belonging.

Dana Kalutsky (12th grade), an ICGC Board Member, shared:

Ida Crown Girls Club is one of the largest and most valuable clubs in our school. ICGC provides girls with activities, trips, shabbatonim, swag, and so much more. There are also countless learning and leadership opportunities for all girls to be a part of. ICGC is a way for all girls in the school to come together and form bonds with each other and with teachers.

Talia Linzer (12th grade) added:

ICGC is an important club at Ida Crown because it brings girls from all grades together through fun events. It helps students make new friends and connect with others they might not usually talk to. The club creates a sense of community and breaks down barriers between grades. Overall, it makes the school a more inclusive and supportive place.”

Josh Miller (11th grade), said:

At ICBC, we build strong relationships with friends, our rabbis, Hashem, and the Torah. These connections not only strengthen our community but also help us grow in wisdom and character, making the school a place of both spiritual and personal development.

William Moscovich (10th grade) added:

ICBC is an amazing club/program that involves every boy in the school, no matter their Hashkafa. It forms amazing connections and relationships between the amazing Rebbeim and every boy. Every student has a unique relationship with at least one of their Rebbeim and ICBC is the backbone of these amazing connections.

The Mechanchim and ICBC help bring a spirit of ruach and Talmud Torah into the school. Thursday night mishmar gives me and my friends a chance to learn together without the pressure of tests or homework, and events throughout the year make the school environment more exciting and fun.

Parents have expressed similar sentiments. A parent of a 2024 graduate shared:

As a parent, I’ve seen firsthand how the Ida Crown Girls Club has positively impacted my daughter. The fact that it’s a space just for girls makes all the difference—it’s a unique environment where she feels comfortable, supported, and empowered to grow as a leader and as a person. The confidence she’s gained through this program has been truly transformative.

Why it Works

The program’s success can be attributed to several key factors:

  1. Student leadership: By empowering students to take ownership of the programming, the school fosters a sense of responsibility and pride. Students are not passive participants but active contributors, shaping the activities to reflect their interests and goals.
  2. Strong faculty involvement: The dedicated team of Mechanchim and Mechanchot plays a crucial role in providing guidance and support. Their consistent presence and commitment ensure that the programming is both meaningful and well-executed.
  3. Community collaboration: The involvement of parents, alumni, and community leaders creates a sense of shared purpose and investment in the program’s success.
  4. Adaptability: The program’s structure allows for flexibility and creativity, enabling it to evolve in response to student feedback and changing needs.

Defining the School’s Identity

Over time, the separate gender programming has become more than just a series of events; it has become one of the most important features of the student experience. It embodies the school’s commitment to fostering spiritual growth, leadership, and connection within a Modern Orthodox school framework. Parents who initially advocated for the program’s creation have seen their vision come to life in ways they could not have imagined.

When asked why they believed this type of programming would address the school’s challenges, parents explained that separate gender activities allow for deeper, more focused connections, free from the social pressures that often arise in mixed settings. “We wanted our kids to have a space where they could grow as individuals and as part of a supportive community,” one parent shared. “This program has done exactly that.”

Conclusion

The separate-gender programming is a testament to the power of intentional, collaborative initiatives in transforming school culture. By addressing the needs of students and creating opportunities for meaningful connection, the program has strengthened the fabric of the school community. More importantly, it has equipped students with the skills, confidence, and values they need to succeed both in and beyond high school. This program is not just an extracurricular success story; it is a reflection of what is possible when a school listens to its community, empowers its students, and aligns its practices with its core values.

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Alise Gold attended Stern College for Women and has an MS in Jewish Education from Azrieli Graduate School. Alise teaches Tanach and is the Assistant Dean for Student Life at Ida Crown Jewish Academy (Skokie, IL).

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